What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch filled with attention and existence, without a standard form and fixed result. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, constantly with regard for (mutual) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The result is typically a wonderful physical, psychological wellness. Normally, the receiver is very unwinded, splendidly streaming and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. The majority of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact love that touches. The hands of the giver are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is loving, constantly focused on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active as well as feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Full of attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and existence. Both the giver and the receiver are completely present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or receiving the massage. A very mindful touch from the heart. Receive also really consciously, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question. Whatever occurs in the minute, in complete consciousness, lovingly attuned to each other and the circumstance. Dreaming away or dropping off to sleep is also not planned (still, when that's what you need, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined result
A tantric massage will constantly be different. You never know how it will turn out. It is not the technique or the preferred sequence of massaging that is essential, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the minute? What is great for her/him? Love knows exactly what to do, like always has a suitable reaction. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is required. Sufficient is that the giver exists and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own strategy, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason often take a really unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in bliss.
How to get the best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limitations
We understood it for a long time, of course, but given that the #MeToo revelations, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear borders in advance
Everyone (other than when you are informed) has his limitations. This is human and is also required (read the article on guarding borders. So believe ahead of time (both as provider and receiver) what your limits are. Ensure there is a proper consumption, and a good preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits ahead of time: about psychological borders, as well as make sure for clearness about physical limits. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is likewise entirely okay (though hard to deal with oil then). It is also a misconception that a tantric massage need to be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages just on the head. Also, in addition, really each cell is sensuous, however you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow easily
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Generally leading to a terrific physical, psychological wellness
Tantra assists you to end up being more relaxed, more dynamic, more energetic, more loving therefore far more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Due to the fact that this is precisely what takes place often: the recipient is enjoying it! Enjoying is totally permitted! A tantra massage is normally good, sometimes delicious. We, for that reason, welcome you to completely enjoy getting ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous types of massage. Naturally, all massages have certain practices and techniques in typical. Yet there is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (aimed at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (targeted at healing).
Well due to the fact that you are really very energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but therapy is an occupation apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive description, see the post on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand apart:
Tantra massage pointers-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply great conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage ideas-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Give feedback (pleasure noises?).
* Build in combination (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried about exactly what they themselves discover enjoyable, fun, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your very own "requirements", keep away from your very own concerns and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Absolutely nothing has actually to be done, absolutely nothing is needed! Again, do not attempt to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are dissatisfied when someone goes to sleep. You may not be awaiting a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No desired result. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Respect limits, set clear boundaries beforehand. Our masseuses are mostly extremely open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. Know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being aroused is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can come up.
* Be alert to restored freezing minutes. Prevent limits from being crossed once again.
* Action by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Delighting in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and offer combination minutes (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being quiet in your head (sometimes totally empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner or even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing effect. It is possible that blockages, psychological injuries pertain to the surface. There may be a psychological release, consisting of physical reactions such as shaking, crying, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the like recovery, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you discover exactly what it is like to enjoy yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that provides an incredibly liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. Tantric massage West London The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (mutual) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, ecstatic state of being of the recipient.
* Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological wellness (of both).